Feng Shui For Beginners

Posted on March 12th, 2010 by Barbara

After my friend Jane told me a little about feng shui, the Chinese art of placement, I made several attempts at learning more by reading about it. I found the books complicated and hard to apply.

I forgot all about it until I noticed a lecture that was being given at Border’s by two feng shui practitioners. A friend and I decided to attend.

Little did I suspect that it was going to turn me into a madwoman. The lecturers gave use some simple tips about things we could do in our environments to improve the chi (energy flow). They introduced us to the bagua, kind of a blueprint for placement.

I spent an hour or so in bed after the lecture mentally moving furniture. I decided that my office was completely backwards, feng shui-wise, so the next morning I began rearranging things.

Six hours later, my office had taken on a new airiness and was more inviting than it had ever been.

They also told us that in order to get things flowing forward in life, we should go home and move twenty-seven objects that hadn’t been moved for a year. I had no difficulty locating twenty-seven things that were overdue for relocation. I changed mirrors and hung crystals. I fretted over sharp corners and pondered ways to soften them. I had a ball seeing my old familiar surroundings with new eyes.

What’s so intriguing to me about this feng shui business is that it’s a wonderful way to become more clear about the metaphors in your life.

For instance, after I moved my computer to the other side of my office, I needed a longer cord. The one I had was quite tangled and I was going to just plug it in when I realized it would be going through my partnership area. “I don’t want tangled partnerships,” I told myself and decided to take the time to straighten out the cord.

Now when I notice it, I affirm that all my partnerships are running smoothly. It can get even more cosmic than this, but I will resist the urge to go on and on about the metaphysical insights gained from moving furniture around.

 “Care for our actual houses,” writes Thomas Moore, “is also care of the soul. No matter where we live, we can cultivate this wider piece of earth as a place that is integrally bound to the condition of our hearts.”

 But, then, the Chinese knew that centuries ago.

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If you’d like to learn more about feng shui, a delightful introduction can be found in Karen Rauch Carter’s Move Your Stuff, Change Your Life

 

A Short Field Trip

Posted on March 10th, 2010 by Barbara

All creative folks have their favorite ways of re-lighting their imagination. On those days when I need a little jolt, but don’t have a lot of time to devote to it, a swing through my neighborhood branch library or bookstore usually does the trick.
Apparently, I’m not the only one who has discovered these idea palaces, but a letter I received a while back shared a bookstore experience that made me smile. I’ll keep the writer anonymous. Here’s his story:
“Exactly 24 hours ago, I took my penny pail to the bank and cashed it in for $32.09. Against my better [...] Continue Reading…

The Natural Habitat of Winners

Posted on March 8th, 2010 by Barbara

Author Robert G. Allen wrote, “The will to prepare to win is more important than the will to win. Preparing usually means doing those kinds of things that failures don’t like to do.
“It means studying and learning. It means reading books, going to seminars. It means not being afraid to corner experts and ask foolish questions.”
As a person who has traveled across the country to attend a seminar and even further to conduct one, I can’t imagine why everyone hasn’t discovered the joy of participating in events that have the power to change our lives for the better.
People who [...] Continue Reading…

Where in the World Do You Work?

Posted on March 5th, 2010 by Barbara

Not long ago, lawyer-turned-entrepreneur Jonathan Fields, author of the terrific Career Renegade,  gave readers of his blog a virtual tour of his office. Since we don’t often get a glimpse of other people’s home offices, I thought you would enjoy seeing where the magic happens.
After I read Food Rules by Michael Pollan, I was curious about his other books. I knew he’d written about food, but that was about all I knew. When my research uncovered an earlier title of his that had been reissued, I was eager to read it.
That book is A Place of My Own and [...] Continue Reading…

A Place to Flourish

Posted on March 3rd, 2010 by Barbara

When I was growing up in a small town in southern Minnesota, I dreamed of living in other places. That didn’t simply mean relocating to another spot for the rest of my days, however. 
I intuitively knew that different places would make different contributions to my life. It took a while to put this plan into motion, but my journey  took me from Janesville, MN to Sun Prairie, WI to Santa Barbara, CA to Boulder, CO to Minneapolis, MN and now to Las Vegas, NV.
It’s obvious to me  that each place either supported my goals at the time or the [...] Continue Reading…

Making Tax Time a Pleasure

Posted on March 1st, 2010 by Barbara

If you saw Margie Bergstrom walking down the street, you might assume she is an artist in her long skirts and funky jewelry. And if you had a conversation with her, she’d probably tell you about her latest sailing adventure or how much she adores Santorini.
But Margie’s not exactly an artist, although her clients think she makes their lives more beautiful. You see, Margie is a highly trained tax accountant who’s been making my life easier for twenty years.
When I  found her, Margie’s World Headquarters was the sun porch at her home in Minneapolis. I still remember arriving for [...] Continue Reading…

Laughing All the Way

Posted on February 27th, 2010 by Barbara

Should I ever wake up some morning and think, “I guess it’s time to get a job,” I know exactly how I’ll abort that thought. I’ll just get in my car and head for the nearest freeway. A few minutes spent in rush hour traffic would certainly bring me back to my senses. 
It’s not just the slowness of heavy traffic that annoys me: the behavior of my fellow drivers is one of the few things guaranteed to make me lose my cool. No thoughts of universal oneness and love of humanity surface when I’m spending time in traffic.
Shortly after [...] Continue Reading…

How to Spend a Gift of Time

Posted on February 25th, 2010 by Barbara

Every business has times that are less busy than others. You can use this time to fret and worry that your entrepreneurial life has come to an end—or you can view it as a gift of time to do some of those things you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do when you have time. 
It  just makes sense, it seems to me, to spend this time wisely and well. Here are a few possibilities.
 * Review and revise your support system.  Is it time to hire a virtual assistant? Find a new tax accountant? Get expert advice?
Unless you’re willing to settle for the [...] Continue Reading…

What Successful Goalsetters Know

Posted on February 22nd, 2010 by Barbara

It happens every time I announce a new special event. Almost immediately, I begin getting messages that say, “Someday I’d love to attend your Storytelling seminar.” Or “When will you be doing your Inspired Livelihood event in Alaska?”
These questions come from folks who don’t understand effective goalsetting. They’ve got it backwards. Sadly, that is a recipe for frustration.
Several years ago when Valerie Young announced our upcoming Making Dreams Happen event, she was deluged with e-mails from people saying they’d like to attend but couldn’t afford the enrollment fee.
She called me to see if I had any ideas about how to [...] Continue Reading…

Using Alternative Currencies

Posted on February 19th, 2010 by Barbara

There’s a silly scene in Wayne’s World which finds Wayne and Garth lying on the hood of their car at the end of an airport runway reveling in the wake caused by planes taking off. Mike Myers says this scene was inspired by a favorite pastime of his family called No Money Fun. The idea, of course, was to come up with entertaining activities that didn’t cost a dime. 
 When I heard Myers tell that story, I thought, “No wonder he’s so creative.  What a great thing to learn early in life.“  No Money Fun is a terrific way to [...] Continue Reading…