My niece Gretchen is about to give birth to her first child. During her pregnancy, her husband Tony has been reading to their unborn baby. Currently, he’s working his way through Don Quixote.

In my family, this is considered normal.

Of all the things I’m thankful for, high on my list is that I was raised by readers. Since I was the eldest child and my father was faraway fighting a war, my mother read to me incessantly. Happily, I’m still being read to.

In the midst of her kindergarten year, Zoe called. When I answered the phone, I was greeted with an exuberant, “Grandma, I can read!”  Read she can and does. When I’m a guest in their house, I have the pleasure of Zoe reading to me every evening.

Of course, you can catch book passion any time in life. However, the sooner you get it, the more time you have to consume more titles.

Once caught, this fever doesn’t diminish. My sister Nancy, who has lived abroad her entire adult life, is relocating to Santa Barbara. She told me that the shipping company required that she count the books in her library.

“I discovered,” she said, with some amazement, “that I own 1,026 books.” Now I’m eager to do an inventory of my own since I have no idea how many books are in my library.

Since Nancy and I are both moving into new homes, finding the perfect spot for our books is a top priority. I keep thinking of Anna Quindlen’s observation, “I will be most happy if my children grow up to be the kind of people whose idea of decorating is to add more bookshelves.”

So while reading for pleasure is what often snares us to begin with, a desire to become our best selves often has us exploring new sections of the library and bookstore.

If you’re building a business, new titles and old can accelerate your success, connect you with ideas, resources and inspiration you’d never have encountered while walking down the street.

Here are five old favorites that are a pleasure to read and filled with useful insights for the Joyfully Jobless life:

Growing a Business by Paul Hawken

Making a Literary Life by Carolyn See

The War of Art by Steven Pressfield

Small is the New Big by Seth Godin

A Whole New Mind by Daniel Pink

While some of these titles may be old friends already, I chose them because they all are worthy of more than one visit.

And if you aren’t a regular reader, make time every day to sample the creative thinkers, the life teachers, the pioneers who have wonderful things to teach us. If you don’t, you’ll be inflicting a needless handicap on yourself.

As the wise Jim Rohn used to say, “The only thing worse than not reading a book in the last 90 days, is not reading a book in the last 90 days and thinking it doesn’t matter. Skip a meal if you must, but don’t skip a book.”

After I had lived in my Minneapolis apartment for a year, the property manager confessed that she and her assistant found me mysterious. They had come to the conclusion that I was a kept woman, since I didn’t seem to keep regular working hours. Equally perplexing, she said, was that every time she saw me I was smiling. What in the world would cause such a thing? 

It gave me great pleasure to know that I had provided them with hours of amusement. I suspect that as more and more of us become Joyfully Jobless there will be more puzzled neighbors. What makes the Joyfully Jobless different? Besides laughing a lot, their behavior is different than that of 9-5ers.  Here are five characteristics:

* They have unpredictable schedules. Generally, they do not leave and return home at regular hours. Instead, you may find them shopping during quiet times, enjoying a midweek movie matinee and heading to the post office when the lines are shortest. Being out of sync with traffic suits them.

* They’re not in attendance. Having left the world of tedious, time-wasting meetings, the Joyfully Jobless are reluctant to align themselves with groups who allow tedium in their gatherings. It’s not that they’re loners, but the Joyfully Jobless are picky about how they spend their precious time.

* They do talk to strangers. Since curiosity is one of their strongest traits, the Joyfully Jobless want to know what others are thinking and doing. The fact that the person next to them in line or on a flight is a total stranger does not keep them from striking up a conversation. 

* They’re confident, but not arrogant. They trust their own ideas and are willing to make mistakes, learn, move on. Personal responsibility is not just a nice idea. It’s their guiding star.

* They  create and live  interesting stories. Here’s one I received from Kristin Russo in No. Scituate, RI who wrote to share it last week:

This month finds me truly joyful. Just one week after I left my teaching job, I was hired as a feature writer for my local newspaper.  My job is now to report good news from our schools and other community arenas, and to write pieces on home and family.  In other words, I’m getting paid to visit my children’s schools, to chat with my friends, and to shop at my favorite stores. I have other projects in the pipeline and am buoyed by my recent success.  Keep the inspiration coming!

 I received my Master’s degree in Teaching Secondary Education English in 2007 and embarked on what I hoped would be long teaching career.  It lasted a year and a half before I decided classroom teaching wasn’t for me.

 I read your book last summer and took your advice about volunteering.  Volunteering really is a great way to ensure you get to do something you enjoy.  I decided to join a  local job networking group and I now volunteer to help job seekers create cover letters and resumes.  I’m teaching similar writing skills that I taught my high school students (proper grammar, punctuation, writing voice and flow), but I find adult learners to be more motivated and more fulfilling to work with than high schoolers.  This volunteering position became the subject of my first story for the newspaper; they loved it, and now I’m a regular correspondent.

 Last week I covered a Literary Character Day party in my 9-year-old’s third grade class.  Yes, I got paid to spend time with my child at school.  That story was a hit with my editor and with my son!

 I was called in to the editor’s office yesterday and given some plumb assignments.  I’ve been asked to do a feature story on homeowners who are looking for low-cost ways to spruce up their homes for spring, and I will be visiting my favorite home furnishing stores to write this story.  I mean it – I am getting paid to shop at my favorite stores!

 I’ve also been signed on as a regular contributor to the newspaper’s Living section, and have been asked to cull story ideas and resources from my circle of friends.  Yup, I’m getting paid to have coffee with my buddies. Best yet, I work from my home office, so my time is truly my own.

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A Whole New Mind by Daniel Pink has been one of my favorite books for the past few years. Keep an eye out for his PBS special Living On the Right Side.

 

Okay, so maybe you’re one of those rare folks who already is having so much fun that you can’t stand another joyful moment. If so, this isn’t for you. On the other hand, if you suspect that  having fun may be the real key to making money (and enjoying the ride), read on. 

° Stop saying yes when you want to say no. Give yourself the gift of more time and less stress by refusing to accept invitations or fill requests that you don’t want to participate in. Decide that you’re done entering popularity contests and, instead, learn to decline unwanted invitations without excuse, apology or explanation. A simple, “No, thank you,” is just fine. You’ll find this easier to do if you are clear about your priorities and determined to spend your time in ways that support and enhance what you value most.

° Create a personal trademark. Larry King is known for his suspenders; United Parcel Service does everything in brown. A trademark can be a color, an item of clothing or jewelry, a slogan or, even a passion that others associate with you. What might you do to make yourself memorable?

° Turn a shortcoming into an asset. No, I’m not talking about concealing a major flaw, but you can use this exercise for learning to see positives that others may have overlooked—then flaunt it. A great example of this  was the ad campaign run by Lenscrafters which had the slogan, “Are you lucky enough to need glasses?” Every time I heard it, I found myself standing a little taller and thinking, “Lucky me!”

° Specialize in success. Really learn about the traits that characterize successful people. How do they think? Spend their time? Recharge their batteries? Too often we run our own lives on failure thinking that we’ve learned from people whose lives were not at all what we want. Pick a favorite guru and read what they have to say about optimal living. We are fortunate to have vastly better tools for living well than any previous generation. Not using them is just cheating ourselves out of the best possible life.

 

° Make a hobby of getting paid to have fun. Of course, people who have created a business of blissful activity already have this mastered. You can incorporate this idea in small ways, too. Want to dine out more often? Sign up with a mystery shopping agency that sends people out to scout the food and service at local eateries. Another variation of this is to give yourself a small amount of money (say $10 or $20) and challenge yourself to have maximum fun with minimum expense. Don’t ever make lack of cash an excuse for not having fun!

 

° Know who makes you laugh. Humor is a funny thing. We don’t all respond to the same things.Make a mental list of all the people who make you laugh and stay in touch with them. I also have a Make Me Laugh folder where I put cartoons and articles that amuse me so I know where to get a laugh in a hurry. And I keep Prairie Home Companion’s Pretty Good Joke Book nearby for a never-fail giggle.

 

Make this your year to lighten up and bring more fun into your life. Don’t be surprised if you suddenly find that fun seeks you out, too. Like attracts like, after all.

$100 Hour: During my 8 month sabbatical a few years back, I discovered how much I enjoyed housesitting. I took over a London flat, a cute cottage in Minnesota and helped out vacationing friends. A good source for long-term situations is the Caretaker Gazette.

Explore More: If you haven’t already done so, get yourself a copy of Daniel Pink’s A Whole New Mind.  It’s a travel guide for succeeding in the Idea Age.

All the really good ideas I ever had came to me while I was milking a cow. ~ Grant Wood

According to people who study such things, we’ve gone from the Industrial Age to the Information Age and are now entering the Idea Age. Creative thinking, often scorned by left-brained thinkers, is taking on a new importance. Richard Florida, author of The Rise of the Creative Class, says,  “Access to talented and creative people is to modern business what access to coal and iron ore was to steel making.” 

I am wildly excited about this turn of events because I’ve known about the power of ideas for a long time. Shortly after I started my first business, I came across a quote from Oliver Wendell Holmes that became a mantra for me. He said, “A person’s mind stretched to a new idea can never return to its original dimensions.” I could see plenty of evidence of that in my own journey.

It saddens me when people talk about a vision and then dismiss it by saying, “It’s just an idea.” JUST an idea?  Think about this: ideas can be…

big

little

crazy

magical

bold

empowering

terrifying

fleeting

life-changing

daunting

abundant

ridiculous

nagging

awakening

potent

trivial

lofty

neglected

startling

far-fetched

on target

provocative

fleeting

brilliant

silly

slow

stuck

elusive

seeds

inspiring

annoying

tenacious

baffling

starved

nurtured

The one thing I know for sure is that the best way to have a good idea is to have a lot of ideas. So this is your official invitation to join me for Ideafest! a month of ideas designed to feed your entrepreneurial spirit. If, as Daniel Pink says, the future belongs to right-brainers, we need to be enthusiastic idea-spotters, gatherers and implementers. I hope you’ll stop back daily to add to your idea collection, find inspiration and launch your best year ever.

Buon Anno!

Another Good Idea: If you want to get focused or simply  need to acquire a power tool for your Joyfully Jobless Journey, join me for Goalsetting 101, a 90-minute teleclass that will show you a creative approach to setting and achieving goals. The teleclass takes place on Tuesday, January 6, 8-9:30 PM Eastern, 5-6:30 PM Pacific. 

Explore More: If you haven’t already done so, read A Whole New Mind by Daniel Pink asap. 

A person’s mind stretched to a new idea can never return to its original dimensions. ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes