On a dreary November morning, my friend and I walked from our Dublin hotel to the bus stop. An elderly man was waiting there so I asked him which bus we needed to take and what the fare would be. “Do we need the exact change?” I asked. He nodded and we began scouring  our wallets looking for coins, but neither of us had enough money for the fare. The man reached in his pocket and pulled out a pile of coins which he held out to us saying, “Ladies in distress are my specialty.”  If the sun had suddenly made an appearance, I don’t think it would have made us any happier than this unexpected act of kindness had. 

 

What do you think might happen to a business that was committed to making everyone’s day a little bit nicer? One business found out.

 

Several years ago, the owner of Seattle’s Pike Place Fish Market set a goal to become a world famous business. He decided that in order to reach this exalted status, he and his staff would master four unorthodox principles which included  Play, Be There, Make Their Day and Choose Your Attitude. The silliness and showmanship that resulted from this policy attracted huge crowds and impressive sales.

 

One day a Minnesota filmmaker happened by the market and was mesmerized by the energy  in this unlikely place. He got the idea to film them in action and have them talk about how they ran their business. That film turned into an enormously popular training film that companies around the world are using to inspire their employees. Several books explaining the simple Fish Philosophy have reached bestseller status. The Pike Place Fish Market isn’t only world famous; it’s a role model for running a joyful business.

  

Making someone’s day doesn’t require grandiose actions, but it does require being attentive to little things that can make life more pleasant or memorable. Any business can find endless ways to do this.

 

When my daughter Jennifer was in college, she worked at a variety of jobs including being a parking lot attendant, a job I considered somewhat dangerous because these booths were often the target of robbers. She refused to give it up because it allowed her to get in a lot of study time.

 

One evening a man drove up and asked if he might park in the lot for just ten minutes without paying. Although it was strictly against policy, he was so polite that she gave him permission to do so.When he left, he thanked her and said, “You must get hungry working here,” and drove off. He returned a few minutes later with a dinner of curried chicken, fried rice and a fortune cookie. Jennie was astonished by his kindness and accepted the meal with her thanks and a handshake. 

 

She never saw him again, but he left a deep impression on her. When she called to tell me what had happened, she said, “Now I want to go do something nice for a total stranger.” It may have been the best lesson she learned in college.

 

Start thinking of ways you could delight the people who support your work and then do something about it. A Japanese  proverb says, “One kind word can warm three winter months.” Don’t underestimate the power of this simple idea. The Fish Guys support you in doing so.

3 Responses to “Make Their Day”

  1. Barbara

    Just got this lovely story from Maggy Whitehouse in response to the post today:

    Lovely stuff Barbara! We went to Pike Place just last Fall when we returned to Montana via Seattle and just loved the energy at the fish place.

    I once paid the last £5 for a lady’s bill at the gas station as her card didn’t work and she didn’t have enough cash. The look on her face! But she got the idea of pay forward and I hope it helped her day along. It did mine – you can’t help but be rewarded instantaneously by the joy of being able to offer genuine help.

  2. Dianne Charlton

    Barbara –

    This is my first post anywhere! My website is under construction and I’m excited about becoming an entrepreneur again. I love your Buon Viaggio section. Everything is so spot on and I just want to read more. However, on the subject of “Make Their Day”. Terrific!
    I have been to Pike’s Place Market many times and know what you mean.

    I stopped by the high school today to drop off a few logo items I’d purchased when my son was in school there but we never used. The lady behind the desk just about fell out of her chair when I asked her to see that the items got back to The Booster’s Club and asked that they be given to any kids who couldn’t afford them. Her smile was bright and so was mine!

  3. Claire Westwood

    Randon acts of kindness are a great way to spread some love and joy around. You can do this anywhere as you have pointed out. Choosing your attitude is another strand of taking responsibility for yourself – your mood and how you come across to others – even if things are tough you can choose to do it with love and joy or with negativity and anger. I know which one will get better results!

    I have not been to Pike place but know the books and have visited a hospital ward in the UK where they have introduced this and it has transformed the nurses’ and patient’s experience!

    Claire

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