{"id":5860,"date":"2012-10-02T21:40:10","date_gmt":"2012-10-03T01:40:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/?p=5860"},"modified":"2020-10-28T10:02:52","modified_gmt":"2020-10-28T14:02:52","slug":"if-nothing-ever-goes-wrong-nothing-much-goes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/2012\/10\/if-nothing-ever-goes-wrong-nothing-much-goes\/","title":{"rendered":"If Nothing Ever Goes Wrong, Nothing Much Goes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On the night before I was scheduled to head out of town on a four day trip, I was quietly reading in bed when I heard a strange gurgling sound coming from the bathroom. Further investigation revealed that the water in the toilet bowl was looking like a volcano about to erupt.<\/p>\n<p>Since my plumbing skills are nonexistent, I decided to flush it and see if that solved the problem. Moments later, water was flooding the floor and I was bailing water and mopping up with a towel.<\/p>\n<p>I shut the water intake valve off, but spent the next couple of hours fretting when I should have been snoozing.<\/p>\n<p>What if the toilet erupted while I was away? Would I flood my downstairs neighbors in the condo below mine? Would I return to a home in shambles?<\/p>\n<p>On Friday morning I headed to the airport still carrying trepidation along with my luggage. Later in the day, my daughter sent me an e-mail assuring me all was well (or, more literally, all was dry). I relaxed a bit.<\/p>\n<p>My attention shifted to teaching the liveliest seminars I could to three groups of students in Sacramento. When I shared my mini-disaster, I got all sorts of advice on dealing with my plumbing problem.<\/p>\n<p>Early on Sunday morning, I headed to Las Vegas to meet up with the folks from <a href=\"http:\/\/internationalliving.com\" class=\"extlink\">International Living<\/a>. They were running a<strong><em> Fast-Track Your Retirement Overseas Conference<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0 where 600 people were investigating what it would take to live abroad.<\/p>\n<p>Since I have no plans to retire either here or abroad, I wasn\u2019t there as a participant. I had come at the invitation of International Living publisher Jackie Flynn to discuss a product they\u2019ll be launching in the new year.<\/p>\n<p>On Sunday evening, I shared dinner and ideas with Jackie and her writing team. I went back to my room feeling quite excited about their new project.<\/p>\n<p>Monday morning I woke up and had two e-mail messages that took me by surprise. The first was from Southwest Airlines alerting me to a delay in my late afternoon flight back to California.<\/p>\n<p>The second was from my long time online merchant provider announcing that they were closing down shop at the end of the year.<\/p>\n<p>I shared my bad news with my Facebook friends and promptly began receiving messages of encouragement. Once again, the dark cloud lifted quickly.<\/p>\n<p>The truth was that neither the bad news nor my overflowing toilet is what I\u2019ll remember from this journey.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, there were so many delightful moments in these four days that when I recall the trip, the first things that come to mind will be the fun I had spending time with my friend Judy Miranda in Sacramento.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll also think about meeting Facebook friend <a href=\"https:\/\/lisamontanaro.com\" class=\"extlink\">Lisa Montanaro<\/a> for the first time and the engaging participants that showed up for my seminars.<\/p>\n<p>And I don\u2019t think I\u2019ll ever forget the view from my room at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.redrock.sclv.com\/\" class=\"broken_link\" class=\"extlink\">Red Rocks Resort<\/a> with the full moon shining down over the lights of Las Vegas.<\/p>\n<p>Or the joyful time I had brainstorming with the International Living team.<\/p>\n<p>After our meeting Monday morning, I headed to the airport although my delayed flight was hours away. I went to the Southwest ticket counter, asked if I could be put on an earlier flight and a few minutes later was heading home.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIs there a charge?\u201d I asked the ticket agent.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNot from me,\u201d she replied (just in case I needed another reason to love that airline).<\/p>\n<p>This little outing reminded me, once again, that building a business isn\u2019t about living in a total and continuous state of bliss. Anyone expecting such a thing won\u2019t be in business very long.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, on those days when you wonder if all the annoyances, distractions and disappointments are worth it, remind yourself of \u00a0this observation from Paulo Coehlo:<\/p>\n<p><em>Too often we decide to follow a path that is not really our own, one that others have set for us. We forget that whichever way we go the price is always the same: in both cases we will pass through difficult and happy moments.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>But when we are living our dreams, the difficulties we encounter make sense.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On the night before I was scheduled to head out of town on a four day trip, I was quietly reading in bed when I heard a strange gurgling sound coming from the bathroom. Further investigation revealed that the water in the toilet bowl was looking like a volcano about to erupt. 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