{"id":1958,"date":"2009-09-14T10:50:56","date_gmt":"2009-09-14T14:50:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/?p=1958"},"modified":"2009-09-14T10:50:56","modified_gmt":"2009-09-14T14:50:56","slug":"sharing-the-obvious","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/sharing-the-obvious\/","title":{"rendered":"Sharing the Obvious"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; min-height: 14px; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">During her freshman year in college, I got a call from my distraught daughter. She\u2019d just heard from her bank and discovered she had an enormous overdraft fee. \u201cDo you keep a balance in your checkbook?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; min-height: 14px; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u201cWhat\u2019s that?\u201d she shot back.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; min-height: 14px; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u201cOh, dear,\u201d I said, \u201csomething else I forgot to teach you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; min-height: 14px; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">It\u2019s a common mistake to assume that everyone else knows the same things we do. It\u2019s not just our children that are missing useful information, however. Chances are you know all sorts of things that would be helpful to others, but it doesn&#8217;t occur to you to share what seems ordinary. I&#8217;ve always thought that the real genius of Martha Stewart is her assumption that everyday living things are not common knowledge.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; min-height: 14px; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">Sometimes we also need to be reminded of things we already know, but are neglecting. I thought of that recently when I was bemoaning the disappearance of independent adult ed programs around the country. For years, these folks were my favorite business partners and I held my seminars almost exclusively with them. It was a perfect match: they were small businessowners sharing ideas and information in their communities at a reasonable price.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; min-height: 14px; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">As the Internet became a convenient go-to source, enrollments in these programs began to go down. Printing costs for their catalogs continued to go up. Eventually, many owners decided the time had passed to run their operations and they closed up shop.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; min-height: 14px; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">I\u2019m not sure it had to happen, but I think we who were involved all failed to remind people of something most of them already knew. That huge advantage that adult ed had over the Internet is this: something happens in a roomful of other people exploring the same subject that goes beyond simply getting information. That\u2019s a dynamic that can\u2019t exist any other way.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; min-height: 14px; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">We must not assume that no matter how good our product or service is that it will market itself. We must not assume that everyone already knows how great our offerings are. And as entrepreneurs, we must not assume that what we learned about careers will translate into our joyfully jobless journey.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">In his blog post, <em>The Hierarchy of Success<\/em>, <a href=\"http:\/\/sethgodin.typepad.com\" class=\"broken_link\" class=\"extlink\">Seth Godin<\/a> points out that we almost never talk about the most essential things. He writes, &#8220;As far as I&#8217;m concerned, the most important of all, the top of the hierarchy is attitude. Why are you doing this at all? What&#8217;s your bias in dealing with people and problems?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">Obvious, isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal Arial; text-align: left; margin: 0px;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 During her freshman year in college, I got a call from my distraught daughter. She\u2019d just heard from her bank and discovered she had an enormous overdraft fee. \u201cDo you keep a balance in your checkbook?\u201d I asked. \u00a0 \u201cWhat\u2019s that?\u201d she shot back.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u201cOh, dear,\u201d I said, \u201csomething else I forgot to&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/sharing-the-obvious\/\"class=\"excerpt-read-more btn btn-primary\"  title=\"ReadSharing the Obvious\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[422],"tags":[440,228,31,225],"class_list":["post-1958","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-the-pleasure-of-their-company","tag-martha-stewart","tag-self-employment-success","tag-seth-godin","tag-sharing-information","jsn-master"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1958","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1958"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1958\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1977,"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1958\/revisions\/1977"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1958"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1958"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joyfullyjobless.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1958"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}